Imagine walking into a bar in Germany, seeing a beautiful woman or a handsome man and being able to instantly flirt with them in their native tongue? Dating in Germany is very similar to every other country, there are not too many major differences between England or the US and Germany when it comes to the flirting part of things. Here are a few items to be aware of when you are on your next date in Germany: Paying the bills — when it comes to paying the bills, Germans can be ruthless. White lies — Germans are naturally very upfront. From politics to work, German people love to get into well-informed, structured conversations.